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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 743783" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Lol Copa.</p><p></p><p>One day my "family" FBs came up on my now deleted FB as potential friends lol. I thought they had all blocked me. On a very very rare time I bothered to look, I scrolled through my brothers FB out of a moment curiousity. I dont k ow why I picked his. Maybe it was the first one I saw.</p><p></p><p>Guess what I found? He had young pictures of himself and my sister and I think it was my father (could have been my mother or grandma...I forget) and baby sister was obviously holding a hand (or could have been brother) but the last person was cut out of the FB picture. The person was me.</p><p></p><p>That didnt upset me. I think I laughed and showed my husband who shook his head and probably added how weird my family of origin is. But that was it.</p><p></p><p>They can cut us out of pictures but we still exist and move on and had these family relationships. I was still there when the picture was taken (shrug).</p><p></p><p>This is one reason why I probably wont check FB or as I call it Fake Book again. That was the last time I looked and only because the FB had come to ME.</p><p></p><p>I dont think I CAN look anymore as I deleted FB. Im not interested enough to check it out. I never was into it.</p><p></p><p>Copa regardless of people's symbolism with FB I dont give it much power. As long as those I dont want in my life no longer are in it, I dont care about if I am acknowledged or not on their Fake Book pages.</p><p></p><p>Copa your sister is a nasty piece of work. Who cares what she symbollically did with those pictures? You still exist and are wonderful.</p><p></p><p>At my most frustrated, my 30s I think, I threw out all my family pictures except a few of me and my grandmother. But the people whose pictures I no longer have still exist....doing whatever they do. The deceased ones still were here.</p><p></p><p>As long as I dont have to see or talk to people I dont want to see, I dont care what they do. They cant hurt me anymore.</p><p></p><p>Copa be glad your nasty sister is gone.</p><p></p><p>As for FB mean girls (or mean boys) symbolism...I think its good to choose your battles over which issues will bother us. For me FB is lower than my worry about somebody elses nasty bathroom.</p><p></p><p>Give me a good book, my dogs, my family of choice, a nature walk and my wonderful volunteer friends and I am good. I refuse to let nasty pettiness ruin my life. FB is petty to me even when the poster is mean. I cant be wiped out nor can you.</p><p></p><p>Haha, meanies!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 743783, member: 1550"] Lol Copa. One day my "family" FBs came up on my now deleted FB as potential friends lol. I thought they had all blocked me. On a very very rare time I bothered to look, I scrolled through my brothers FB out of a moment curiousity. I dont k ow why I picked his. Maybe it was the first one I saw. Guess what I found? He had young pictures of himself and my sister and I think it was my father (could have been my mother or grandma...I forget) and baby sister was obviously holding a hand (or could have been brother) but the last person was cut out of the FB picture. The person was me. That didnt upset me. I think I laughed and showed my husband who shook his head and probably added how weird my family of origin is. But that was it. They can cut us out of pictures but we still exist and move on and had these family relationships. I was still there when the picture was taken (shrug). This is one reason why I probably wont check FB or as I call it Fake Book again. That was the last time I looked and only because the FB had come to ME. I dont think I CAN look anymore as I deleted FB. Im not interested enough to check it out. I never was into it. Copa regardless of people's symbolism with FB I dont give it much power. As long as those I dont want in my life no longer are in it, I dont care about if I am acknowledged or not on their Fake Book pages. Copa your sister is a nasty piece of work. Who cares what she symbollically did with those pictures? You still exist and are wonderful. At my most frustrated, my 30s I think, I threw out all my family pictures except a few of me and my grandmother. But the people whose pictures I no longer have still exist....doing whatever they do. The deceased ones still were here. As long as I dont have to see or talk to people I dont want to see, I dont care what they do. They cant hurt me anymore. Copa be glad your nasty sister is gone. As for FB mean girls (or mean boys) symbolism...I think its good to choose your battles over which issues will bother us. For me FB is lower than my worry about somebody elses nasty bathroom. Give me a good book, my dogs, my family of choice, a nature walk and my wonderful volunteer friends and I am good. I refuse to let nasty pettiness ruin my life. FB is petty to me even when the poster is mean. I cant be wiped out nor can you. Haha, meanies!! [/QUOTE]
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