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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 743997" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I feel like I may have given you all the impression I'm impervious to hurt feelings. Not true. I've had little things happen just lately that I really took too personally. (My boss told me to choose which parking pass I wanted (I had two) and when I procrastinated, she took the one I used most often and I was going to choose...I just hadn't yet. That hurt my feelings for days until I realized she had reasons. There was a weird thing in choir last week when I asked for a clarification on what the notes were (I don't read music) and no one would play the damn notes! That's still bugging me. One finger, four keys. Just play the damn thing so I know I'm singing right!)</p><p></p><p>So when something DOES happen directly to me, I definitely obsess over it. But generally, I'm too oblivious to even notice a slight or an insult. I'm too busy doing or thinking about other things.</p><p></p><p>And there is judgment, I assure you. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Generally, I think people are good and I don't caulk up to malice what can be explained by stupidity.</p><p></p><p>Then again, some people are just A-holes. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite11" alt=":rolleyes:" title="Roll Eyes :rolleyes:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":rolleyes:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 743997, member: 17309"] I feel like I may have given you all the impression I'm impervious to hurt feelings. Not true. I've had little things happen just lately that I really took too personally. (My boss told me to choose which parking pass I wanted (I had two) and when I procrastinated, she took the one I used most often and I was going to choose...I just hadn't yet. That hurt my feelings for days until I realized she had reasons. There was a weird thing in choir last week when I asked for a clarification on what the notes were (I don't read music) and no one would play the damn notes! That's still bugging me. One finger, four keys. Just play the damn thing so I know I'm singing right!) So when something DOES happen directly to me, I definitely obsess over it. But generally, I'm too oblivious to even notice a slight or an insult. I'm too busy doing or thinking about other things. And there is judgment, I assure you. :) Generally, I think people are good and I don't caulk up to malice what can be explained by stupidity. Then again, some people are just A-holes. :rolleyes: [/QUOTE]
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