I think I read somewhere in all of this you are from Florida I to am from florida My children are in a special school that the state has set up for children with mental diagnosis's not sure if there is one in your area but you could ask the school district in your county. we don't pay anything extra for them attending and it has done away with 9 million calls a day about what the kids have done or are doing they are more able to deal with the behaviours there as well has have encourgeing rewards for good behaviour.school funds there transportation on a school bus with two adults they even are equiped with seat belts and straps if the children become unrully on the bus. Over all it has been a better placement for my children maybe something like this could help someone else to.