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<blockquote data-quote="overcome mom" data-source="post: 749399" data-attributes="member: 23328"><p>Thanks for all the input. As I was writing it I knew that I shouldn't get in the middle of it. I guess I still feel a little guilty that things have turned out so poorly with my son. I know that I have done everything I can to help him . They don't know what we have done or haven't. I do feel like a lot of it is genetic. His birthmother had 5 children by 5 different men. She placed one other child . The other child she placed is a male and he also got in trouble with the law . With the two girls she kept, one left to live with her father and the other moved out with her boyfriend at 17 the other child is 9 years old. The birthfather had been in jail. </p><p></p><p>This is so true. I do worry that he is asking them for money . It is up them to say no. I know they don't have much so it probably is not hard for them to say no.</p><p></p><p>He has talked to both of them on and off for the last few years. He even tried to live at his birthmother's house for a bit but that lasted only 4 days before she kicked him out. He has no friends so he just tries to have any relationship he can.</p><p>KSM - that is so bad-sad that your grands bio mom would say such a thing to get your grands to come. That is probably the last time they will believe her.</p><p>Really I wish that my son's bio parents were great people and could help get him on the right track. I would welcome the support but I really don't think it is going to happen. I have so much on my plate with him now wish this wasn't happening but it is good for him that someone beside myself and my husband care about him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="overcome mom, post: 749399, member: 23328"] Thanks for all the input. As I was writing it I knew that I shouldn't get in the middle of it. I guess I still feel a little guilty that things have turned out so poorly with my son. I know that I have done everything I can to help him . They don't know what we have done or haven't. I do feel like a lot of it is genetic. His birthmother had 5 children by 5 different men. She placed one other child . The other child she placed is a male and he also got in trouble with the law . With the two girls she kept, one left to live with her father and the other moved out with her boyfriend at 17 the other child is 9 years old. The birthfather had been in jail. This is so true. I do worry that he is asking them for money . It is up them to say no. I know they don't have much so it probably is not hard for them to say no. He has talked to both of them on and off for the last few years. He even tried to live at his birthmother's house for a bit but that lasted only 4 days before she kicked him out. He has no friends so he just tries to have any relationship he can. KSM - that is so bad-sad that your grands bio mom would say such a thing to get your grands to come. That is probably the last time they will believe her. Really I wish that my son's bio parents were great people and could help get him on the right track. I would welcome the support but I really don't think it is going to happen. I have so much on my plate with him now wish this wasn't happening but it is good for him that someone beside myself and my husband care about him. [/QUOTE]
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