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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 755593" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Yes. You are a bit older than me. I am sorry that this mars our years that are supposed to be relaxing. I have a soft heart for us all.</p><p></p><p>Both you and I have kids who are FAR from kids who still act like children and expect us to bail them out of trouble of their own making. I say you should finally cut it out like we did. How else will they survive when we watch them from Heaven? No, we can't live on Earth forever. They may as well get used to it now. I feel bad but I am also excited about the future with my husband and kind grown kids and grands. And I am focusing on that and I do feel guilty at times. But nothing will keep me from living my best life. My daughter has the option of doing better. It is on her now. She is 33 going on 12 but that is due to drugs. That is her fault.</p><p>You will not be able to give your son a dime when you are gone. Nor I my daughter. We have stopped.</p><p>You deserve amazing golden years. Maybe block your son from your phone. Maybe let him know that he is 48 and he has to live his own life from now on. He won't like it. Kay was mortified. But I did it for myself, to enjoy life, and for her to get a chance to believe that we can not hold her up forever.</p><p></p><p>My prayers and thoughts are with you. Maybe join Al Anon or get into therapy. We do both. Hugs!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 755593, member: 23706"] Yes. You are a bit older than me. I am sorry that this mars our years that are supposed to be relaxing. I have a soft heart for us all. Both you and I have kids who are FAR from kids who still act like children and expect us to bail them out of trouble of their own making. I say you should finally cut it out like we did. How else will they survive when we watch them from Heaven? No, we can't live on Earth forever. They may as well get used to it now. I feel bad but I am also excited about the future with my husband and kind grown kids and grands. And I am focusing on that and I do feel guilty at times. But nothing will keep me from living my best life. My daughter has the option of doing better. It is on her now. She is 33 going on 12 but that is due to drugs. That is her fault. You will not be able to give your son a dime when you are gone. Nor I my daughter. We have stopped. You deserve amazing golden years. Maybe block your son from your phone. Maybe let him know that he is 48 and he has to live his own life from now on. He won't like it. Kay was mortified. But I did it for myself, to enjoy life, and for her to get a chance to believe that we can not hold her up forever. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Maybe join Al Anon or get into therapy. We do both. Hugs!!! [/QUOTE]
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