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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 755618" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Busynmember, When I first tried the animal thing I did the cat. But with the ape I can yelp louder and sound more crazy. My husband has done it with me. My mom gave me the idea to do it. My daughters conversations were so over the top that I was speechless and then answered her back with meows but could not sound crazy enough so I did the ape. It shocks her and makes her laugh at the same time. But it has defused many very toxic situations..She can tell when she has crossed the line with me because I answer her back with loud ape noises. She then says 'OH' and tries to get herself back on track. Telling her she is off track sends her into a never ending mania. Me acting like an ape makes her feel I am off track and putting the off track on me and then it restores her back to peace so much more quickly. God knows I have tried everything and anything and this seems to restore balance so much more quickly. Wish I would have done this years ago it would have saved my family from deep grief.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 755618, member: 22416"] [I]Busynmember, When I first tried the animal thing I did the cat. But with the ape I can yelp louder and sound more crazy. My husband has done it with me. My mom gave me the idea to do it. My daughters conversations were so over the top that I was speechless and then answered her back with meows but could not sound crazy enough so I did the ape. It shocks her and makes her laugh at the same time. But it has defused many very toxic situations..She can tell when she has crossed the line with me because I answer her back with loud ape noises. She then says 'OH' and tries to get herself back on track. Telling her she is off track sends her into a never ending mania. Me acting like an ape makes her feel I am off track and putting the off track on me and then it restores her back to peace so much more quickly. God knows I have tried everything and anything and this seems to restore balance so much more quickly. Wish I would have done this years ago it would have saved my family from deep grief.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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