difficult child was starting to come around. For the past month school was finally going better, he's been testing clean at IOP and things have been OK at home. Yesterday was the worst of the worst - caught at school with enough pot and baggies for suspicion of selling, tons of used nitrous oxide containers and a little bags of what's know as "moon rocks" -all in his car. This is his second such arrest in almost exactly 2 years...both on school property. I am glad he was caught if that's whats going on because he's been in treatment but I think for him treatment meant getting away from "addictive drugs" like coke, but pot and phychodelicis he thought he could handle. You know the old "If Iust use this stuff" "it's not addictive". I'm numb. We do have in-home services and the counselor stayed with us till 10PM, so we have support, but how do we move forward? I am afraid to do rehab and spend all that money becuase his language does not emit acceptance - "why does society have to but into people's business" - " I wasn't hurting anyone" - "the school got me in trouble", etc. He is not hostile, says he doesn't deserve us as parents, he's ashamed, etc....but he's not in acceptance. The courts may hit hard this time and rehab may be our only option. Please pray and guide us.