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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 387506" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>This is typical explosive child stuff - probably he lacks ' cognitive flexibility and black and white rigid thinking.</p><p></p><p>bad feelings are unstable and just get in the way of learning fom experiences . I don't think husband blaming difficult child could be a learning experience for difficult child. in the moment we just have to find ways to calm difficult child down and get him thinking and rationale again. Out of the moment when husband and difficult child are feeling good about each other they could do some proactive Plan B - collaborative problem solving , also we can explore ways for difficult child to handle disappointment - maybe words - I am disappointed, frustrated but at least ... , no big deal etc</p><p></p><p>Not easy , education and acquiring lacking skills is a process</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 387506, member: 10"] Hi, This is typical explosive child stuff - probably he lacks ' cognitive flexibility and black and white rigid thinking. bad feelings are unstable and just get in the way of learning fom experiences . I don't think husband blaming difficult child could be a learning experience for difficult child. in the moment we just have to find ways to calm difficult child down and get him thinking and rationale again. Out of the moment when husband and difficult child are feeling good about each other they could do some proactive Plan B - collaborative problem solving , also we can explore ways for difficult child to handle disappointment - maybe words - I am disappointed, frustrated but at least ... , no big deal etc Not easy , education and acquiring lacking skills is a process Allan [/QUOTE]
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