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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 747004" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Update... he ended up going to the er refused detox. Found his wallet and paid his rent... had to hear how he won't have any money now until the next payday. I just said well I am not sending money. This was your doing, your choices. I told him he knew what would happen when he took the first drink and he chose to do so.</p><p> I encouraged him to consider going back into an IOP program and sober living. He said "if you have money to help me if I go to sober living why won't you help me now" I replied- we have helped over and over again and it didn't help because you are right back where you started again. There is no way I am throwing money out when you are not working a program. </p><p>He admitted that he won't do sober living again because of the no girlfriend sleep over policy and no privacy... I reminded him that until he is happy with himself, no relationship is going to work. I got if " I don't have a girlfriend to make me happy I get loaded... done " </p><p>So I guess we wait and see what happens next. I feel losing his job is next and maybe that will get his attention but who knows.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 747004, member: 22817"] Update... he ended up going to the er refused detox. Found his wallet and paid his rent... had to hear how he won't have any money now until the next payday. I just said well I am not sending money. This was your doing, your choices. I told him he knew what would happen when he took the first drink and he chose to do so. I encouraged him to consider going back into an IOP program and sober living. He said "if you have money to help me if I go to sober living why won't you help me now" I replied- we have helped over and over again and it didn't help because you are right back where you started again. There is no way I am throwing money out when you are not working a program. He admitted that he won't do sober living again because of the no girlfriend sleep over policy and no privacy... I reminded him that until he is happy with himself, no relationship is going to work. I got if " I don't have a girlfriend to make me happy I get loaded... done " So I guess we wait and see what happens next. I feel losing his job is next and maybe that will get his attention but who knows. [/QUOTE]
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