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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 747015" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>I expect his world to crash within a few weeks. Last night I had to hear how he can't take another loan from his 401k and he won't be able to pay his rent for April.... how he has no money to live on for this week and only had 3 things left to eat. I told him he has 2 pays coming so it should be enough to cover his rent. I offered to have groceries delivered and received no reply. I refused to pay his cable bill as well. I did cave and send 2 small digital gift cards via email to a place to get a sub and a coffee... Guess what? He never evened opened the emails so that shows me he was just looking for cash. I do fear he owes money for drugs. I do fear what is going to happen when he can't pay his rent in a few weeks. </p><p>He needs a long term program- one that is longer than a month. However, we can't afford $15,000 a month. I found a great one but that is the cost x 3 because it is 3 months long. </p><p>I know he needs a long term one so he can get some sobriety under his belt.</p><p>Not sure what will happen but I feel the job will soon be gone. Him taking off a week every 6 weeks due to relapse has to be getting really old. The fmla soon has to be up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 747015, member: 22817"] I expect his world to crash within a few weeks. Last night I had to hear how he can't take another loan from his 401k and he won't be able to pay his rent for April.... how he has no money to live on for this week and only had 3 things left to eat. I told him he has 2 pays coming so it should be enough to cover his rent. I offered to have groceries delivered and received no reply. I refused to pay his cable bill as well. I did cave and send 2 small digital gift cards via email to a place to get a sub and a coffee... Guess what? He never evened opened the emails so that shows me he was just looking for cash. I do fear he owes money for drugs. I do fear what is going to happen when he can't pay his rent in a few weeks. He needs a long term program- one that is longer than a month. However, we can't afford $15,000 a month. I found a great one but that is the cost x 3 because it is 3 months long. I know he needs a long term one so he can get some sobriety under his belt. Not sure what will happen but I feel the job will soon be gone. Him taking off a week every 6 weeks due to relapse has to be getting really old. The fmla soon has to be up. [/QUOTE]
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