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<blockquote data-quote="Smithmom" data-source="post: 740861" data-attributes="member: 23371"><p>Sadly I think you're right that it will always be a sadness in your heart. Keeping that sadness from invading your day, relationships, sleep etc is where disengagement helps. </p><p></p><p>I have had no contact with mine for some weeks now. Keeping track of dates, how long its been, would only be opening myself up to pain. So I don't know. I get on with my life and put that relationship and pain on hold in the back of my mind and heart. When it comes to the front, yes often in the middle of the night, I look for distractions. An old friend of mine who has lovely children, family and little idea of our tragedy has an expression. In short its, just put one foot in front of the other and keep moving. She applies this to minor annoyances. I apply it to major pain. Either way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Smithmom, post: 740861, member: 23371"] Sadly I think you're right that it will always be a sadness in your heart. Keeping that sadness from invading your day, relationships, sleep etc is where disengagement helps. I have had no contact with mine for some weeks now. Keeping track of dates, how long its been, would only be opening myself up to pain. So I don't know. I get on with my life and put that relationship and pain on hold in the back of my mind and heart. When it comes to the front, yes often in the middle of the night, I look for distractions. An old friend of mine who has lovely children, family and little idea of our tragedy has an expression. In short its, just put one foot in front of the other and keep moving. She applies this to minor annoyances. I apply it to major pain. Either way. [/QUOTE]
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