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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 751547" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>You are a loving person. Like us we thought adopting a child is the same as raising one from our own DNA and that love will conquer all. But it didn't happen. Kay was always difficult and a problem and we blamed ourselves for manjy years. But we don't know about her birthmother. Did she drink? We don't know. Was she mentally ill? We don't know anything. The birthfather and his history is unknown. We believed that our love would make her a normal, loving child and that our ability to give her abundance would help her finish college (with no debt) and embrace life.</p><p>.</p><p>She never did. She is 33. We are done. Our grandchild will be taken care of if she loses parental rights. Kay burned every bridge. Nobody will take her in or her loser husband.</p><p></p><p>We have done over the top help for her. She won't grow from a leg up. Maybe she can't but she needs help and refuses any.</p><p></p><p>We are powerless.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry for your pain and I understand. I offer hugs and.prayers. I am on the forum a lot because writing here is very therapeutic for me. </p><p></p><p>Be well PLEASE!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 751547, member: 23706"] You are a loving person. Like us we thought adopting a child is the same as raising one from our own DNA and that love will conquer all. But it didn't happen. Kay was always difficult and a problem and we blamed ourselves for manjy years. But we don't know about her birthmother. Did she drink? We don't know. Was she mentally ill? We don't know anything. The birthfather and his history is unknown. We believed that our love would make her a normal, loving child and that our ability to give her abundance would help her finish college (with no debt) and embrace life. . She never did. She is 33. We are done. Our grandchild will be taken care of if she loses parental rights. Kay burned every bridge. Nobody will take her in or her loser husband. We have done over the top help for her. She won't grow from a leg up. Maybe she can't but she needs help and refuses any. We are powerless. I am so sorry for your pain and I understand. I offer hugs and.prayers. I am on the forum a lot because writing here is very therapeutic for me. Be well PLEASE!!! [/QUOTE]
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