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Saying NO and setting Boundaries
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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 749050" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Tanya,</p><p>Thanks for sharing on Saying NO and setting boundaries. I'm doing better but still struggle with the FOG. For instance my 30 yr. old son who lives in his car, does have severe anxiety but isn't working, can't "seem" to find a job (doesn't want a job but would rather have me support him) and blames everything on me and usually vomits on me verbally and has not contacted me for only 2 days and my mind goes in a million different directions worrying. Instead, of taking this brief reprieve I find myself thinking "is he OK"? Has he gone off the deep end and done something to himself (not that he ever has) but he sent me a two line apology e-mail prior to his falling off the edge of the earth two days ago. Telling me he's sorry for everything he's done and he knows he can't ever makeup for it. It didn't sound like a good-bye e-mail but he's not usually "nice" to me so all the committees in my head start up a story! So you see even when I get what I want for my 30 yr. old son to start taking care of himself and not contacting me every single day (multiple times) I have to worry and feel bad. Ugh..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 749050, member: 23405"] Tanya, Thanks for sharing on Saying NO and setting boundaries. I'm doing better but still struggle with the FOG. For instance my 30 yr. old son who lives in his car, does have severe anxiety but isn't working, can't "seem" to find a job (doesn't want a job but would rather have me support him) and blames everything on me and usually vomits on me verbally and has not contacted me for only 2 days and my mind goes in a million different directions worrying. Instead, of taking this brief reprieve I find myself thinking "is he OK"? Has he gone off the deep end and done something to himself (not that he ever has) but he sent me a two line apology e-mail prior to his falling off the edge of the earth two days ago. Telling me he's sorry for everything he's done and he knows he can't ever makeup for it. It didn't sound like a good-bye e-mail but he's not usually "nice" to me so all the committees in my head start up a story! So you see even when I get what I want for my 30 yr. old son to start taking care of himself and not contacting me every single day (multiple times) I have to worry and feel bad. Ugh.. [/QUOTE]
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