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Saying NO and setting Boundaries
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 749069" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Tanya</p><p></p><p>I am like you. Always want to please everyone and make everyone happy so having boundaries with our son has helped me in other aspects of my life as well.</p><p></p><p>Learning detachment has also helped me greatly. I have had a very off and on relationship with my older/only sister that used to pain me greatly but now I can handle it. It amazes me to be honest. Right now we don't have a relationship at all (her doing) and I am okay with it and thankful that I don't have to deal with her drama.</p><p></p><p>He is lucky but he is our youngest and our only child together. As long as he is moving forward in his life we will let him stay with us. He is in training for a career in welding right now and once he has money coming in he knows he is on his own. </p><p></p><p>I am happy that things are going well in our family and he is better than I have ever seen him since this all started. Better but certainly not perfect. I am a perfectionist with him and that is not even realistic.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 749069, member: 15032"] Tanya I am like you. Always want to please everyone and make everyone happy so having boundaries with our son has helped me in other aspects of my life as well. Learning detachment has also helped me greatly. I have had a very off and on relationship with my older/only sister that used to pain me greatly but now I can handle it. It amazes me to be honest. Right now we don't have a relationship at all (her doing) and I am okay with it and thankful that I don't have to deal with her drama. He is lucky but he is our youngest and our only child together. As long as he is moving forward in his life we will let him stay with us. He is in training for a career in welding right now and once he has money coming in he knows he is on his own. I am happy that things are going well in our family and he is better than I have ever seen him since this all started. Better but certainly not perfect. I am a perfectionist with him and that is not even realistic. [/QUOTE]
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