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She ran but it wasn't just any run!
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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 418949" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>Today in court the rug and I believe the world was pulled out from under my daughter. The judge took her out of DCFS custody and placed her in the Juvenile Justice System. She was on the waiting list for residential at the DBT school she attends. Because she insists on running (says she can't control it) she is not safe-esp. where she goes. However, now the best therapy (DBT) is not an option. She did it-killed her chances to heal. Dont know what will happen, we will get a new PO this week and go to court in another week so a decision will have to be made. I dont even know what options are available through this system in our state. I will once again have to educate all new people about her past and dxs and yadda,yadda...I hope I have someone who listens. It took awhile and an "almost flip-out" to get DCFS to hear us. When we visited DT tonight, I saw a new look in her eyes-she told us she has given up. I'm worried we have done the wrong thing seeking state help..... but what else could we do? We spent all we had on the Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) and she came out worse and endangers herself. My husband thinks we have lost her forever. I have never seen him cry so hard. My heart is aching for my daughter and my husband. I saw this coming though. This the toughest judge-he has a reputation for helping kids, but today felt rushed and as if he had not read about her past. I have never felt so helpless as a mother. What to do????</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 418949, member: 11001"] Today in court the rug and I believe the world was pulled out from under my daughter. The judge took her out of DCFS custody and placed her in the Juvenile Justice System. She was on the waiting list for residential at the DBT school she attends. Because she insists on running (says she can't control it) she is not safe-esp. where she goes. However, now the best therapy (DBT) is not an option. She did it-killed her chances to heal. Dont know what will happen, we will get a new PO this week and go to court in another week so a decision will have to be made. I dont even know what options are available through this system in our state. I will once again have to educate all new people about her past and dxs and yadda,yadda...I hope I have someone who listens. It took awhile and an "almost flip-out" to get DCFS to hear us. When we visited DT tonight, I saw a new look in her eyes-she told us she has given up. I'm worried we have done the wrong thing seeking state help..... but what else could we do? We spent all we had on the Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) and she came out worse and endangers herself. My husband thinks we have lost her forever. I have never seen him cry so hard. My heart is aching for my daughter and my husband. I saw this coming though. This the toughest judge-he has a reputation for helping kids, but today felt rushed and as if he had not read about her past. I have never felt so helpless as a mother. What to do???? [/QUOTE]
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