mstang: They already have the explanation, just not the answer. Last year at this time they were both living in a soberhouse in the same town and she relapsed and slept with somebody for drugs. Atleast one she admitted too, but I have a feeling there was more then one. This was in January and the baby was born in October, so when you do the math, we have lots of reason to question the paternity. I have no idea if she even knows who the father is or where, if it's not my sons.
Last January when she relapsed my difficult child was calling me constantly because she would dissapear for the day. That is what is so aggrivating about this whole thing because I keep telling him that he already knows for a fact she slept with someone else, so why would you need the babies paternity to prove this too you???
It is such a dysfunctional unhealthy relationship, it's not even funny!! This is why I pray the baby isn't his and that he really really moves on, but with everything she has already done to him over the past 3 years and he's still with her, I don't even believe this would make him leave her, so then I think, the baby may as well be his because he'll be with her anyway.