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She's almost 18 - surrendered to CYS
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 708034" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>All you can do is play along with CYS until she is a legal adult. Is she even going to be interested in finishing high school? Once she is 18, she seems like a dropout risk. I would buy her a bus ticket to that hippy commune for her birthday. I would NOT tell her that life in a commune involves everyone working hard to contribute. I have a cousin who lived in several communes over the years (she truly is the most hippy crunchy granola person, and I love her absolutely to death) and life in them is not all sweetness and light - it is a TON of hard work. But I would give her that bus ticket and let her go learn for herself.</p><p></p><p>As far as a trust fund, lololol!!! And for free college tuition because she is a foster kid? Who told her that? That is the dumbest lie I have ever heard of! Foster kids are on their own on their 18th birthday. The state tosses them out on their tushies on their 18th birthday in most states. They are legal adults and the system is so overtaxed that it can barely take care of the kids under 18. It doesn't give a single hoot for the kids over 18. Let her continue believing those lies until she is 18 and one day and trying to get into her college with that fake check for tuition. See how far she gets.</p><p></p><p>This is just more of her psychotic delusions. Do NOT buy into it.</p><p></p><p>Make sure you have a good lawyer, and play along with CYS. Eventually when your daughter is over 18 and out of your home, and no reports are coming in about the other kids, CYS will go away.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 708034, member: 1233"] All you can do is play along with CYS until she is a legal adult. Is she even going to be interested in finishing high school? Once she is 18, she seems like a dropout risk. I would buy her a bus ticket to that hippy commune for her birthday. I would NOT tell her that life in a commune involves everyone working hard to contribute. I have a cousin who lived in several communes over the years (she truly is the most hippy crunchy granola person, and I love her absolutely to death) and life in them is not all sweetness and light - it is a TON of hard work. But I would give her that bus ticket and let her go learn for herself. As far as a trust fund, lololol!!! And for free college tuition because she is a foster kid? Who told her that? That is the dumbest lie I have ever heard of! Foster kids are on their own on their 18th birthday. The state tosses them out on their tushies on their 18th birthday in most states. They are legal adults and the system is so overtaxed that it can barely take care of the kids under 18. It doesn't give a single hoot for the kids over 18. Let her continue believing those lies until she is 18 and one day and trying to get into her college with that fake check for tuition. See how far she gets. This is just more of her psychotic delusions. Do NOT buy into it. Make sure you have a good lawyer, and play along with CYS. Eventually when your daughter is over 18 and out of your home, and no reports are coming in about the other kids, CYS will go away. [/QUOTE]
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