worried sick mother
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I haven't posted in a long time and it's not because everything has been peachy because it hasn't, just been busy. My son has stopped getting his Vivitrol injection, says he doesn't need it anymore. He is completely avoiding us (his family) , I never talk to him period, won't answer my calls , never calls me, occasionally text me sometimes days after Ive texted him and I pay for the phone by the way. I saw him on his birthday over a month ago for about a 2 hour dinner. He looked bad again and then during dinner I look over and he's profusely sweating and it wasn't hot at all. I'm thinking withdrawal.
He truly thinks that he has us fooled that he's not using again, I'll remind you guys that I did an intervention, he went to rehab, totally blames me for his drug use that I kept accusing him so he just started using, still has never admitted he had a problem, says he only went to rehab to get us off his back. Denial at its finest! Anyway no one has said anything to him, confronted him at all because honestly we never see him so we don't know for sure.
So this happens yesterday, he ask my mom to order them a pizza and she does then his girlfriend post a picture of her hand holding a marjuana joint on Instagram with the hashtag humpdaze. She doesn't know I can see her Instagram. I was just going to let it go but as the day goes on I'm so mad. I also let my mom know that she basically bought them a joint. How dare him ask my mom to pay for anything then she post that. I'll also remind you that I had a huge disagreement when she posted a picture of my son on Facebook with a joint hanging out his mouth and I nicely ask her to remove it, she refused. My question is do I confront him or do I just go on acting like I think he's drug free?? It will be pure hell if I do and he will say this is why I don't talk to you, always drama with you. Opinions???
He truly thinks that he has us fooled that he's not using again, I'll remind you guys that I did an intervention, he went to rehab, totally blames me for his drug use that I kept accusing him so he just started using, still has never admitted he had a problem, says he only went to rehab to get us off his back. Denial at its finest! Anyway no one has said anything to him, confronted him at all because honestly we never see him so we don't know for sure.
So this happens yesterday, he ask my mom to order them a pizza and she does then his girlfriend post a picture of her hand holding a marjuana joint on Instagram with the hashtag humpdaze. She doesn't know I can see her Instagram. I was just going to let it go but as the day goes on I'm so mad. I also let my mom know that she basically bought them a joint. How dare him ask my mom to pay for anything then she post that. I'll also remind you that I had a huge disagreement when she posted a picture of my son on Facebook with a joint hanging out his mouth and I nicely ask her to remove it, she refused. My question is do I confront him or do I just go on acting like I think he's drug free?? It will be pure hell if I do and he will say this is why I don't talk to you, always drama with you. Opinions???