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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 487646" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Try to get help for yourself . Your kid sister is in a better position than you are - she engages the world , assertive in her maladaptive way , also being used by her dad , but she is a fighter , she is defiant in meeting her needs. </p><p></p><p>Surround yourself with people who are supportive , have values - join a charity , local church , find a mentor, frienships etc - try to make a contribution etc </p><p></p><p>The problems - mother suffering, dad also , sister etc is a side tracking you from dealing with your own problems. Once you are self supporting , emotionallyu stronger etc you will be able to help your mother, sister etc and get more respect from them </p><p></p><p>Sending my positive thoughts and prayers im your direction </p><p></p><p>the bottom line - in order to help others they must be part of the solution and more important you need to be the attractive and competent personality who has the power to influence others.</p><p></p><p>You seem a very loyal and good person - but the Bible says - love your neighbour as yourself - you need to love yourself in order to love and help others </p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 487646, member: 10"] Try to get help for yourself . Your kid sister is in a better position than you are - she engages the world , assertive in her maladaptive way , also being used by her dad , but she is a fighter , she is defiant in meeting her needs. Surround yourself with people who are supportive , have values - join a charity , local church , find a mentor, frienships etc - try to make a contribution etc The problems - mother suffering, dad also , sister etc is a side tracking you from dealing with your own problems. Once you are self supporting , emotionallyu stronger etc you will be able to help your mother, sister etc and get more respect from them Sending my positive thoughts and prayers im your direction the bottom line - in order to help others they must be part of the solution and more important you need to be the attractive and competent personality who has the power to influence others. You seem a very loyal and good person - but the Bible says - love your neighbour as yourself - you need to love yourself in order to love and help others Allan [/QUOTE]
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