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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 744022" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>UPDATE:</p><p>So, he is at the treatment center... however, now the insurance is stating they will not approve the residential stay. Say all he needs is IOP.... I may have to self pay now for the last how many days unless the doctors can get it approved.</p><p>He is still refusing to do anything like sober living or IOP. Tells me that he will go to more meetings, find a home group, etc. I reminded him that he said the same things a few weeks ago when he quit IOP ... he got silent.</p><p>Is getting the vivitrol shot before he is discharged which will last right up to about 2 days before NY eve before it starts wearing off....</p><p></p><p>His counselor, recovery coach and a friend all told him that going back to his apartment alone is a "death sentence" but still he is going back. One would think that would get his attention.</p><p></p><p>His counselor recommended a life coach which costs $100 per hour and a therapist at $175 an hour. I was told he should pay for this... He doesn't have the money when his rent is more than double my mortgage. </p><p></p><p>I just don't understand him. He says he hates that life of alcohol. Doesn't want to lose his job.. but yet will not follow what they recommend. </p><p></p><p>It is so hard to let go and let God but that is all I can do now. I was asked if I have anything to hold over him to make him go.. not really.. up until this past week he paid his rent on his own. He pays all of his other bills as well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 744022, member: 22817"] UPDATE: So, he is at the treatment center... however, now the insurance is stating they will not approve the residential stay. Say all he needs is IOP.... I may have to self pay now for the last how many days unless the doctors can get it approved. He is still refusing to do anything like sober living or IOP. Tells me that he will go to more meetings, find a home group, etc. I reminded him that he said the same things a few weeks ago when he quit IOP ... he got silent. Is getting the vivitrol shot before he is discharged which will last right up to about 2 days before NY eve before it starts wearing off.... His counselor, recovery coach and a friend all told him that going back to his apartment alone is a "death sentence" but still he is going back. One would think that would get his attention. His counselor recommended a life coach which costs $100 per hour and a therapist at $175 an hour. I was told he should pay for this... He doesn't have the money when his rent is more than double my mortgage. I just don't understand him. He says he hates that life of alcohol. Doesn't want to lose his job.. but yet will not follow what they recommend. It is so hard to let go and let God but that is all I can do now. I was asked if I have anything to hold over him to make him go.. not really.. up until this past week he paid his rent on his own. He pays all of his other bills as well. [/QUOTE]
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