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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 723524" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>i agree with the others. in every single point.</p><p></p><p>you left no stone unturned.</p><p></p><p>people will hurt us and betray us. often they are our blood. i am not sure why we feel ourselves the shame but i know i do.</p><p></p><p>you love your son with all your heart and soul. the anger is but one manifestation.</p><p></p><p>like others say he is exactly where he needs to be. they may have placed him on suicide watch due to his instrumental threat. </p><p></p><p>i pray he does not get bail. but this is out of your control and responsibility.it is almost as if this was scripted. as if you have been on</p><p>a spiritual workout program to face this, in the months prior. </p><p></p><p>while you may not feel so, nobody could be stronger than you are to deal with this right now.</p><p></p><p>the love, the hope, the faith strengthened you as much or more than the boundaries. i believe that. like warp and weave of the strongest fabric.</p><p></p><p>there is nothing to do right now except care for your husband and yourself.</p><p></p><p>your son has begun his adult journey by going on to the open road far, far from home.</p><p></p><p>i continue to believe this is immaturity, hubris and drug addiction. but whatever it is, it is not yours.</p><p></p><p> you have no more role in this. society now has taken charge. it is out of your hands. this is better. in a paradoxical way. for him and you.</p><p></p><p>he demonstrated that there is nothing at all you can do. nothing. </p><p></p><p>his chances are now one hundred percent located in him. </p><p></p><p>all of us believe that there is a right and better thing we can do. and then another. and another. until there is nothing left to do. </p><p></p><p>oh. i wish i could reach through this phone and hug you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 723524, member: 18958"] i agree with the others. in every single point. you left no stone unturned. people will hurt us and betray us. often they are our blood. i am not sure why we feel ourselves the shame but i know i do. you love your son with all your heart and soul. the anger is but one manifestation. like others say he is exactly where he needs to be. they may have placed him on suicide watch due to his instrumental threat. i pray he does not get bail. but this is out of your control and responsibility.it is almost as if this was scripted. as if you have been on a spiritual workout program to face this, in the months prior. while you may not feel so, nobody could be stronger than you are to deal with this right now. the love, the hope, the faith strengthened you as much or more than the boundaries. i believe that. like warp and weave of the strongest fabric. there is nothing to do right now except care for your husband and yourself. your son has begun his adult journey by going on to the open road far, far from home. i continue to believe this is immaturity, hubris and drug addiction. but whatever it is, it is not yours. you have no more role in this. society now has taken charge. it is out of your hands. this is better. in a paradoxical way. for him and you. he demonstrated that there is nothing at all you can do. nothing. his chances are now one hundred percent located in him. all of us believe that there is a right and better thing we can do. and then another. and another. until there is nothing left to do. oh. i wish i could reach through this phone and hug you. [/QUOTE]
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