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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 754279" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Beta</p><p></p><p>I could have written your post. This has happened to me before. It is painful to be treated like that. </p><p></p><p>It is so hard for us to know our adult children manipulate us. We do what we have to do to appease our own pain but eventually we get stronger and can handle the pain within us when we don’t fall prey to their demands. </p><p>The more you can do this the more able you can handle the next battle. </p><p>My 30 yr old for years got money, rent, gas food etc from me. In August when I finally reached my own personal threshold of insults, verbal and threatened physical abuse from him I ceased all communication with him. I have not heard from him since. Somehow he has managed. I’m sure it’s not perfect for him but it just goes to show they will survive and quite possibly all the discomfort they go through is part of the growth to move out of their situations. </p><p>Wishing you God’s strength and peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 754279, member: 23405"] Beta I could have written your post. This has happened to me before. It is painful to be treated like that. It is so hard for us to know our adult children manipulate us. We do what we have to do to appease our own pain but eventually we get stronger and can handle the pain within us when we don’t fall prey to their demands. The more you can do this the more able you can handle the next battle. My 30 yr old for years got money, rent, gas food etc from me. In August when I finally reached my own personal threshold of insults, verbal and threatened physical abuse from him I ceased all communication with him. I have not heard from him since. Somehow he has managed. I’m sure it’s not perfect for him but it just goes to show they will survive and quite possibly all the discomfort they go through is part of the growth to move out of their situations. Wishing you God’s strength and peace. [/QUOTE]
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