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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 738583" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>I can’t even begin to tell you all what a tall glass of ice tea on a hot day your words of support are. Thank you Jabber. I will repeat this. When <em><strong>she</strong></em> wants to. Right now, the motivation is a get out of jail free card without thought of what that means for her family. </p><p></p><p>Thank you RN. That is what they want, for me to take responsibility, and the likely fall.</p><p></p><p>My thoughts exactly, it has been a month. Too soon. I am sure if she was honest about her addiction, they could swing rehab or a program her way.</p><p></p><p>That is the proper way to put it Re<em>. My not giving her what she wants is a support. </em></p><p></p><p>This is so true. I can’t captain her ship for her. She has got to learn to do the right thing. I am certain that would not happen if I was her easy way out. It would be more of the same. Easy for her, very, very hard on us.</p><p> Thank you Re. You guys have been my lifeline.</p><p> Ahhh, Albie, that was my thinking. They have to do what she wants. It’s part of this game.</p><p></p><p>Thank you Copa. I am seeing that, even as my heart aches. </p><p> This sums it up so perfectly. It will never be enough. Recalling Tornados soliloquy on her “horrible childhood” it is a much different picture than what I recall. We were there for her, did many things together as family, trips, camping, outings, movies, etc. Supported her schooling and activities. Tried over and again to help her. She sold us down the river and then some. Never apologetic. Just feelings of expectations and entitlement. </p><p></p><p></p><p>It is written in a big smelly pile of poop. Thank you Copa. All of it is true.</p><p></p><p>Thank you TL, this is my first time ever dealing with this stuff. The voice of reason and explanation helps me so much to understand the method to the madness. </p><p></p><p>Thank you TL. That is my main motivator, to keep my promise to my son and keep my home peaceful.</p><p>Thank you DoneDad.</p><p> That is the exact thing she would do....rip the roof off.</p><p></p><p>Swot, you are exactly correct. The tension when she is around is horrible and that is before anything even happens.</p><p></p><p>Your opinion is worth a lot. Thank you Swot.</p><p> 30 is hardly a kid for sure. She needs to wake up.</p><p>I so appreciate all of your support and experience shared here. It is a big sigh of relief and many bricks to build a fortifying wall around my decision.</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 738583, member: 19522"] I can’t even begin to tell you all what a tall glass of ice tea on a hot day your words of support are. Thank you Jabber. I will repeat this. When [I][B]she[/B][/I] wants to. Right now, the motivation is a get out of jail free card without thought of what that means for her family. Thank you RN. That is what they want, for me to take responsibility, and the likely fall. My thoughts exactly, it has been a month. Too soon. I am sure if she was honest about her addiction, they could swing rehab or a program her way. That is the proper way to put it Re[I]. My not giving her what she wants is a support. [/I] This is so true. I can’t captain her ship for her. She has got to learn to do the right thing. I am certain that would not happen if I was her easy way out. It would be more of the same. Easy for her, very, very hard on us. Thank you Re. You guys have been my lifeline. Ahhh, Albie, that was my thinking. They have to do what she wants. It’s part of this game. Thank you Copa. I am seeing that, even as my heart aches. This sums it up so perfectly. It will never be enough. Recalling Tornados soliloquy on her “horrible childhood” it is a much different picture than what I recall. We were there for her, did many things together as family, trips, camping, outings, movies, etc. Supported her schooling and activities. Tried over and again to help her. She sold us down the river and then some. Never apologetic. Just feelings of expectations and entitlement. It is written in a big smelly pile of poop. Thank you Copa. All of it is true. Thank you TL, this is my first time ever dealing with this stuff. The voice of reason and explanation helps me so much to understand the method to the madness. Thank you TL. That is my main motivator, to keep my promise to my son and keep my home peaceful. Thank you DoneDad. That is the exact thing she would do....rip the roof off. Swot, you are exactly correct. The tension when she is around is horrible and that is before anything even happens. Your opinion is worth a lot. Thank you Swot. 30 is hardly a kid for sure. She needs to wake up. I so appreciate all of your support and experience shared here. It is a big sigh of relief and many bricks to build a fortifying wall around my decision. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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