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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 738585" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Thank you so much Kalahou, this just strengthened my "No" to oh "HELL NO!" There is no way I am going down that path. Don't have the time or energy to focus on all of it. I have tried too many times to help her, TRO's against boyfriend, taking her in, only to have her go right back to the same ole same ole without a blink of an eye.</p><p></p><p> Acacia, their opinion of us......is none of our business. That is what I have to keep repeating. It is a sick twisted way to switch blame for their ill choices over to us. Not right, or acceptable. It is not a normal relationship we have with these adult children of ours. They play the "poor me" card and then walk all over us. It is indecent of them. Not having it.</p><p></p><p> This has happened many times with Tornado. Her conscience is buried deep down.</p><p></p><p> That is my take on it as well. I would be sacrificing my peace of mind and heart, as well as the sanctuary of my home. Nope, not doing it.</p><p></p><p> This is Tornado to a "T". Yes, we had our struggles. For the most part, she had a blessed life and doesn't seem to remember any of it. </p><p>Thank you again for helping me see through the FOG of this.</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 738585, member: 19522"] Thank you so much Kalahou, this just strengthened my "No" to oh "HELL NO!" There is no way I am going down that path. Don't have the time or energy to focus on all of it. I have tried too many times to help her, TRO's against boyfriend, taking her in, only to have her go right back to the same ole same ole without a blink of an eye. Acacia, their opinion of us......is none of our business. That is what I have to keep repeating. It is a sick twisted way to switch blame for their ill choices over to us. Not right, or acceptable. It is not a normal relationship we have with these adult children of ours. They play the "poor me" card and then walk all over us. It is indecent of them. Not having it. This has happened many times with Tornado. Her conscience is buried deep down. That is my take on it as well. I would be sacrificing my peace of mind and heart, as well as the sanctuary of my home. Nope, not doing it. This is Tornado to a "T". Yes, we had our struggles. For the most part, she had a blessed life and doesn't seem to remember any of it. Thank you again for helping me see through the FOG of this. (((HUGS))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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