My boys were both easily accepted also. Here, if you are accepted by Regional Center, SSI automatically accepts you because Reg Ctr standards are even higher. We also have Medi-Cal waivers for the disabled. Maybe he could get a Medicaid waiver??
What about a Special Needs Trust for him? Do you know how that dovetails with SSI?
I did find this info: "...the Social Security Administration made three important changes to the SSI program rules. These revisions became effective January 1, 2005:
Clothing is no longer considered in-kind income. Formerly, if an SSI recipient received any clothing from a third party (including a Special Needs Trust), his SSI benefit might be reduced. This is because clothing (along with food and shelter) was considered in-kind income. Now the trustees job should be easier, because she can use trust funds to pay for the beneficiarys clothes without reducing the SSI benefit. (However, food and shelter are still considered in-kind income that can reduce the SSI benefit.)
The $4,500 limit on the value of an automobile has been eliminated. Formerly, if an SSI recipient owned an automobile, it had to be worth $4,500 or less, unless it was specially adapted, required for medical transportation, or needed because of distance or geography. Now Social Security disregards the cars value.
The $2,000 limit on the value of personal items a recipient can own has been eliminated. Formerly, the value of a recipients personal property (such as furniture, computer, jewelry, etc.) could not exceed $2,000. Now there is no monetary limit on that kind of property. Note, however, that the new law affects only personal items. SSIs strict $2,000 limit on liquid resources (cash, bank account, savings bonds, etc.) remains unchanged.