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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 751728" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I really, really agree with Copa. As long as you pay, and only if you pay, it is okay to not want to deal with this particular therapist who you have had trouble with.</p><p></p><p>Aside from this therapist, in my opinion let your daughter pick. Therapy is tricky and it is sometimes a few tries getting one that fits us. He or she may be wrong for somebody but right for somebody else. Only that person can decide. Only your daughter knows who clicks with her.</p><p></p><p>Do not expect the therapist to keep you in the loop nor should you wish this. Therapy is private, between two adults. What they work on and how they work on it has to be between them.</p><p></p><p>I would be thrilled if Kay would see any therapist. At least that is accepting to a certain degree that you need help.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion again being a helicopter parent is unhelpful to all adult.kids, the normal ones and those that need help. Think about if you would have responded well to a helicopter parent or, if you had one, if you became frustrated. </p><p></p><p>We would have loved our younger daughter to work at our business, like our son does. She struck out on her own. We swallowed our own disappointment (considerable) and let her go her own way without trying to hold her back. We were not great parents without flaws, but I think this is one thing we did right.</p><p></p><p>Be well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 751728, member: 23706"] I really, really agree with Copa. As long as you pay, and only if you pay, it is okay to not want to deal with this particular therapist who you have had trouble with. Aside from this therapist, in my opinion let your daughter pick. Therapy is tricky and it is sometimes a few tries getting one that fits us. He or she may be wrong for somebody but right for somebody else. Only that person can decide. Only your daughter knows who clicks with her. Do not expect the therapist to keep you in the loop nor should you wish this. Therapy is private, between two adults. What they work on and how they work on it has to be between them. I would be thrilled if Kay would see any therapist. At least that is accepting to a certain degree that you need help. in my opinion again being a helicopter parent is unhelpful to all adult.kids, the normal ones and those that need help. Think about if you would have responded well to a helicopter parent or, if you had one, if you became frustrated. We would have loved our younger daughter to work at our business, like our son does. She struck out on her own. We swallowed our own disappointment (considerable) and let her go her own way without trying to hold her back. We were not great parents without flaws, but I think this is one thing we did right. Be well. [/QUOTE]
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