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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 753302" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>While I believe we have no right AT ALL to tell our grown kids which therapist to see, that is because THEY usually pay the bill and we have no ability to get involved in anything about adult decisions that they fund.</p><p></p><p> If we pay the bill, I think we do have a say. We can tell our child "I am not okay with your seeing Sue Smith, but if you want to go it's really not my business as long as you pay for it." Be calm. </p><p></p><p>I am very on the fence about what I would do about it if I did pay. This is a very tough situation to be in. If I really didn't like her affect on my child I would probably say exactly what I did in the last paragraph. "You can go to anyone you like as long as you pay the bill."</p><p></p><p>She is old enough to do this without you.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and prayers and take it if it resonates and leave it if it doesn't. This is an odd situation!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 753302, member: 23706"] While I believe we have no right AT ALL to tell our grown kids which therapist to see, that is because THEY usually pay the bill and we have no ability to get involved in anything about adult decisions that they fund. If we pay the bill, I think we do have a say. We can tell our child "I am not okay with your seeing Sue Smith, but if you want to go it's really not my business as long as you pay for it." Be calm. I am very on the fence about what I would do about it if I did pay. This is a very tough situation to be in. If I really didn't like her affect on my child I would probably say exactly what I did in the last paragraph. "You can go to anyone you like as long as you pay the bill." She is old enough to do this without you. Hugs and prayers and take it if it resonates and leave it if it doesn't. This is an odd situation! [/QUOTE]
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