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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 736205" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I'm so sorry. </p><p></p><p>Your son is a grown man. Grown men do not live with their mothers. Grown men do not need their mothers to lie for them. Surely he could have been released to a halfway house or some other facility. He had access to $5,000! Do you know what I could do with $5,000? Okay...so he lied and said he lived with you. Then having bought himself time, there's no reason at all why in the last two months he couldn't find and pay for a cheap apartment, find work and begin paying his own way, thereafter telling the authorities his new address. </p><p></p><p>I don't suppose you know why Probation was looking for him? Clearly, they thought he lived with you, so he likely missed an appointment. No excuse. </p><p></p><p>None of this is on you. My goodness, you offered him more money than some people earn in months! He had every chance to succeed. </p><p></p><p>Take care of yourself and do not let his guilt trip get to you. You've done more than enough and he has made his own bed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 736205, member: 17309"] I'm so sorry. Your son is a grown man. Grown men do not live with their mothers. Grown men do not need their mothers to lie for them. Surely he could have been released to a halfway house or some other facility. He had access to $5,000! Do you know what I could do with $5,000? Okay...so he lied and said he lived with you. Then having bought himself time, there's no reason at all why in the last two months he couldn't find and pay for a cheap apartment, find work and begin paying his own way, thereafter telling the authorities his new address. I don't suppose you know why Probation was looking for him? Clearly, they thought he lived with you, so he likely missed an appointment. No excuse. None of this is on you. My goodness, you offered him more money than some people earn in months! He had every chance to succeed. Take care of yourself and do not let his guilt trip get to you. You've done more than enough and he has made his own bed. [/QUOTE]
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