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I too have a son with custody issues. His ex is vindictive and wants his rights taken away permanently. She does everything she can to destroy his life. He is not able to be a good dad at this point but loves his son. She has her own demons and is not the wonderful person she tries to make herself out to be. She makes her son call her live in daddy and does not allow anyone to discuss my son. She is a control freak to the 10th degree and stalks my son to catch him doing something she can use against him. She meanwhile is a ex drug dealer. (Not sure i believe ex) with ptsd. I got to see my grandson recently and his behavior has deteriorated measurably. Anyway as far as his custody issues and your sons they both need to want it bad enough to do what they need for themselves that would give them the ability to fight for it.