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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 749577" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Yep. Your ex thinks your son is helpless and a victim and that his record is just another bad break for him rather than his own fault. Yep. Father is not helping at all. Too bad. It really is. Then ex tries to guilt you on top of it.</p><p></p><p>You are not picking your boyfriend over your son. You are picking yourself first, which you should. Parents do not "parent" forever. That is why the legal age is eighteen. You also cant make your son either quit drugs or go back to substances. From the way he acts, just like my Kay, I doubt he ever stopped using. Even on the slight chance he did, only he can keep himself sober.</p><p></p><p>If your ex wants to treat your son like he cant do better than he is, then he will continue to make excuses for him. Maybe he will house him and pay his bills. Why hasnt he, if he feels your son is helpless?</p><p></p><p>You in my opinion should.move out and be with the man who is good to you. Maybe its time to block the ex. Be well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 749577, member: 23706"] Yep. Your ex thinks your son is helpless and a victim and that his record is just another bad break for him rather than his own fault. Yep. Father is not helping at all. Too bad. It really is. Then ex tries to guilt you on top of it. You are not picking your boyfriend over your son. You are picking yourself first, which you should. Parents do not "parent" forever. That is why the legal age is eighteen. You also cant make your son either quit drugs or go back to substances. From the way he acts, just like my Kay, I doubt he ever stopped using. Even on the slight chance he did, only he can keep himself sober. If your ex wants to treat your son like he cant do better than he is, then he will continue to make excuses for him. Maybe he will house him and pay his bills. Why hasnt he, if he feels your son is helpless? You in my opinion should.move out and be with the man who is good to you. Maybe its time to block the ex. Be well. [/QUOTE]
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