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<blockquote data-quote="ckay87" data-source="post: 750151" data-attributes="member: 24067"><p>Yes, actually. Son is moving into Ex's rental property in supposedly a week. He'll be paying rent, which is ultimately coming from the financial help I've agreed to give. That financial help has a dollar amount and an end date. </p><p></p><p>Honestly, both ex and I are doing a good amount to help Son. The part that SOOO dug into me was the blame, blame, blame and the attempted guilt trips. It's my fault if he returns to drugs? I'm supposed to feel bad about not allowing him to live with me? When he refuses to work, is verbally abusive, scary to live with, a massive pig, smokes pot like his life depends on it, brings so many friends to my house, the only place I can relax is my bed, takes my money, refuses to help, contributes nothing, destroys my stuff....... Ex's demand that I continue to "be responsible" (i.e., house this person), is ridiculous. </p><p></p><p>Sorry.... I'm coming off of a night where (let me paint this picture for you) I had a nice seafood dinner planned for my boyfriend and I at my house, when Son came home from a trip, throws a FIT about nothing, yelling, cursing and calling me names, to the point I cancelled dinner and left the house. My house. The one that I, and I alone pay rent for. Followed by a bad night sleep because he won't stop smoking in bed and I'm subconsciously convinced I'm going to die in a fire.</p><p></p><p>Again.... sorry. I'm so so so exhausted. I vented now to you and I vented last week when I got that flurry of texts trying to make me feel bad. Ex is renting his property to son, I'll give him that. I just spent so much time trying to be a good mom and nobody has seen that. I want to just slip away and live somewhere in peace now. I'm tired. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ckay87, post: 750151, member: 24067"] Yes, actually. Son is moving into Ex's rental property in supposedly a week. He'll be paying rent, which is ultimately coming from the financial help I've agreed to give. That financial help has a dollar amount and an end date. Honestly, both ex and I are doing a good amount to help Son. The part that SOOO dug into me was the blame, blame, blame and the attempted guilt trips. It's my fault if he returns to drugs? I'm supposed to feel bad about not allowing him to live with me? When he refuses to work, is verbally abusive, scary to live with, a massive pig, smokes pot like his life depends on it, brings so many friends to my house, the only place I can relax is my bed, takes my money, refuses to help, contributes nothing, destroys my stuff....... Ex's demand that I continue to "be responsible" (i.e., house this person), is ridiculous. Sorry.... I'm coming off of a night where (let me paint this picture for you) I had a nice seafood dinner planned for my boyfriend and I at my house, when Son came home from a trip, throws a FIT about nothing, yelling, cursing and calling me names, to the point I cancelled dinner and left the house. My house. The one that I, and I alone pay rent for. Followed by a bad night sleep because he won't stop smoking in bed and I'm subconsciously convinced I'm going to die in a fire. Again.... sorry. I'm so so so exhausted. I vented now to you and I vented last week when I got that flurry of texts trying to make me feel bad. Ex is renting his property to son, I'll give him that. I just spent so much time trying to be a good mom and nobody has seen that. I want to just slip away and live somewhere in peace now. I'm tired. Thanks for listening. [/QUOTE]
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