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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 737589" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Copa, I can understand why you are conflicted about choosing to post Pink's PM to you. I have been in similar positions here and have made similar choices and struggled with that choice as well. Before you came on board, one of my public admissions resulted in the administrator of the site leaving.....it was a gruesome experience for me and it took me awhile to get back my balance and feel OK enough to continue here. I understand the struggle you feel. You're going to turn over every rock to see where your accountability is, where your motives lie... I would do the same thing......I only hope you do it from a place of self love and curiosity, not self blame. </p><p></p><p>Before the attack on you, there were rumblings of similar sentiments contained in the "fun" threads, it didn't erupt with you, it became hostile when you told the truth. I'd been observing those threads because something didn't feel right. I alerted Cheryl, I was concerned. Your courage in telling the truth exposed something that needed to be exposed to keep the site safe. Yes, you could have been silent about the PM and born the cruelty of those words alone.....however, for me, sharing it gave us the appropriate knowledge of how our circle had been infiltrated by someone who is not a part of that circle and in fact, denigrates it. For me, you made a choice to protect the "whole" which I understand in some ways impacts your sense of integrity......but, for me, you made all the 'right' choices.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 737589, member: 13542"] Copa, I can understand why you are conflicted about choosing to post Pink's PM to you. I have been in similar positions here and have made similar choices and struggled with that choice as well. Before you came on board, one of my public admissions resulted in the administrator of the site leaving.....it was a gruesome experience for me and it took me awhile to get back my balance and feel OK enough to continue here. I understand the struggle you feel. You're going to turn over every rock to see where your accountability is, where your motives lie... I would do the same thing......I only hope you do it from a place of self love and curiosity, not self blame. Before the attack on you, there were rumblings of similar sentiments contained in the "fun" threads, it didn't erupt with you, it became hostile when you told the truth. I'd been observing those threads because something didn't feel right. I alerted Cheryl, I was concerned. Your courage in telling the truth exposed something that needed to be exposed to keep the site safe. Yes, you could have been silent about the PM and born the cruelty of those words alone.....however, for me, sharing it gave us the appropriate knowledge of how our circle had been infiltrated by someone who is not a part of that circle and in fact, denigrates it. For me, you made a choice to protect the "whole" which I understand in some ways impacts your sense of integrity......but, for me, you made all the 'right' choices. [/QUOTE]
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