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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 758384" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hello Trying</p><p></p><p>Does this mean that he is quitting/leaving his job or is he able to work from home? </p><p></p><p>Trying. I suggest that you read over your old threads, and try to put as your goal that you are the center of your life, the person who can change, the person who deserves to and can heal. </p><p></p><p>As long as you focus upon your son, his poor choices, his poor behavior, what he says and does, this purgatory will continue for you. You are not helping him by your single-minded focus on him and your sense of dependency on him, what he says and what he does or does not do. You are choosing over and over again to empower his self-destructive and abusive choices, his addiction, his self-destructive choices. While he is the primary victim, you are too, with your husband and daughter.</p><p></p><p>As long as you choose to focus upon him, as if he is a villain who is terrorizing you, over whom you are powerless, this reality will continue to define and to control your life. You are choosing this. Most of the rest of us here did the same, until we stopped. There is another way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 758384, member: 18958"] Hello Trying Does this mean that he is quitting/leaving his job or is he able to work from home? Trying. I suggest that you read over your old threads, and try to put as your goal that you are the center of your life, the person who can change, the person who deserves to and can heal. As long as you focus upon your son, his poor choices, his poor behavior, what he says and does, this purgatory will continue for you. You are not helping him by your single-minded focus on him and your sense of dependency on him, what he says and what he does or does not do. You are choosing over and over again to empower his self-destructive and abusive choices, his addiction, his self-destructive choices. While he is the primary victim, you are too, with your husband and daughter. As long as you choose to focus upon him, as if he is a villain who is terrorizing you, over whom you are powerless, this reality will continue to define and to control your life. You are choosing this. Most of the rest of us here did the same, until we stopped. There is another way. [/QUOTE]
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