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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 758390" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>What do you suggest I do when he calls and says he doesn't want to live anymore? He has called and he is drunk and brings up things from his childhood and is blaming us for working and having his grandparents babysit him. I know this is all hogwash and his way to try to drag us down. My problem is he called earlier today and asked about flying home to stay with a friend. My husband agreed to buy his airplane ticket and pick him up at the airport and then drive him to the friends house. Now tonight, drunk, he said he has no clue how he will even get to the airport, has not clue about packing,etc.</p><p>Said he has not life left to live... wants to die so badly... I suggested he goes for help and then decides about his life.. was told he was tired of me shoving everything down his throat.</p><p>The ex girlfriend called for a well check on him and he called us to tell us that the cop came and talked to him. I called the crisis line about getting him committed and they told me that they don't do that where he lives. All they do is send a cop and the cop will assess him and if he feels he is a harm then possibly will call to get him in. </p><p>If he doesn't get on the plane, no clue then what will happen. </p><p>Someone suggested we fly out and then fly him to treatment.. He is 25 yrs old and hard to force on anyone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 758390, member: 22817"] What do you suggest I do when he calls and says he doesn't want to live anymore? He has called and he is drunk and brings up things from his childhood and is blaming us for working and having his grandparents babysit him. I know this is all hogwash and his way to try to drag us down. My problem is he called earlier today and asked about flying home to stay with a friend. My husband agreed to buy his airplane ticket and pick him up at the airport and then drive him to the friends house. Now tonight, drunk, he said he has no clue how he will even get to the airport, has not clue about packing,etc. Said he has not life left to live... wants to die so badly... I suggested he goes for help and then decides about his life.. was told he was tired of me shoving everything down his throat. The ex girlfriend called for a well check on him and he called us to tell us that the cop came and talked to him. I called the crisis line about getting him committed and they told me that they don't do that where he lives. All they do is send a cop and the cop will assess him and if he feels he is a harm then possibly will call to get him in. If he doesn't get on the plane, no clue then what will happen. Someone suggested we fly out and then fly him to treatment.. He is 25 yrs old and hard to force on anyone. [/QUOTE]
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