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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 758471" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Thank you, he called today and told my husband he was going to leave treatment. My husband told him to call his sponsor and then he called back. I got on the phone and could not stay calm. I told him that he knows exactly what is going to happen if he leaves. He was using the excuse that his FMLA paperwork wasn't done on time and there are 5 more days to get it in. I honestly don't even know what I said anymore but ended it with I love you and I can't do this.</p><p></p><p>He told my husband that no matter what happens to know that he loves us.... He was told if he didn't go to treatment or complete it that we were done and would not accept calls anymore. Not sure if that is what he meant or if was planning on doing something.</p><p></p><p>I wish I knew how to be an encouraging calm talking mom. Obviously I have failed at that.</p><p></p><p>My parents have helped him 2x's now with his credit card debt. I have told them NO more. I sure hope they listen. So I am sure if he doesn't stay and he goes back to the same routine he will have them to the max shortly- spends over $1000 on booze a month.. Won't be able to hold his job much longer with all the time he misses. Its only a matter of time. </p><p>I have done all I can.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 758471, member: 22817"] Thank you, he called today and told my husband he was going to leave treatment. My husband told him to call his sponsor and then he called back. I got on the phone and could not stay calm. I told him that he knows exactly what is going to happen if he leaves. He was using the excuse that his FMLA paperwork wasn't done on time and there are 5 more days to get it in. I honestly don't even know what I said anymore but ended it with I love you and I can't do this. He told my husband that no matter what happens to know that he loves us.... He was told if he didn't go to treatment or complete it that we were done and would not accept calls anymore. Not sure if that is what he meant or if was planning on doing something. I wish I knew how to be an encouraging calm talking mom. Obviously I have failed at that. My parents have helped him 2x's now with his credit card debt. I have told them NO more. I sure hope they listen. So I am sure if he doesn't stay and he goes back to the same routine he will have them to the max shortly- spends over $1000 on booze a month.. Won't be able to hold his job much longer with all the time he misses. Its only a matter of time. I have done all I can. [/QUOTE]
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