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Well.... guess the signs keep pointing to father is better.. not a dream
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 609545" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Confused I apologize. I have not followed your posts since I have issues to focus on at home BUT although I may be completely wrong due to lack of details I honestly (based on experience) don't think that you need to feel diminished if your Ex is doing well and is able to open his heart. (Qualified response because I don't KNOW he has an open heart as I have not been following your story!)</p><p></p><p>One thing I do believe, however, is that there are times whe difficult child's do better with one parental unit than another. If you REALLY believe that his Dad "may be" able to provide a less chaotic environment don't let your personal issues prevent that from happening. In my experience there are certain times when difficult children respond best to parenting from the Mom and then there are times when the parenting from a Dad "can" help build character and strength. I fully understand that it may "seem" to be a wrong choice to transfer a child from one parent to another BUT so long as you can feel comfortable with a transition...consider it. Don't worry about what others may think or say. Analyze the situation and go for what seems best for your child. Sometimes a different age or level of maturity dictates that a change "may" be a good thing. Don't concern yourself with what others may think of your choice. Follow you heart and your knowledge. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 609545, member: 35"] Confused I apologize. I have not followed your posts since I have issues to focus on at home BUT although I may be completely wrong due to lack of details I honestly (based on experience) don't think that you need to feel diminished if your Ex is doing well and is able to open his heart. (Qualified response because I don't KNOW he has an open heart as I have not been following your story!) One thing I do believe, however, is that there are times whe difficult child's do better with one parental unit than another. If you REALLY believe that his Dad "may be" able to provide a less chaotic environment don't let your personal issues prevent that from happening. In my experience there are certain times when difficult children respond best to parenting from the Mom and then there are times when the parenting from a Dad "can" help build character and strength. I fully understand that it may "seem" to be a wrong choice to transfer a child from one parent to another BUT so long as you can feel comfortable with a transition...consider it. Don't worry about what others may think or say. Analyze the situation and go for what seems best for your child. Sometimes a different age or level of maturity dictates that a change "may" be a good thing. Don't concern yourself with what others may think of your choice. Follow you heart and your knowledge. DDD [/QUOTE]
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