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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 737739" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome! I'm so sorry for your heartache.</p><p></p><p>I agree with the others that seeking out a therapist would be the most helpful for you. Sometimes church's offer low cost counselling. </p><p></p><p></p><p>This can be tricky, but you most certainly can tell your kids. It's not that you are out to bash your husband but your kids are not operating under the whole truth. Of course before I would say anything, I would want to work through this with a counselor. </p><p></p><p></p><p>They have learned this behavior from watching their father.</p><p></p><p>I do hope you will seek out some kind of therapy. You can also utilize the library as there are so many wonderful self help books. You have been beaten down with hurtful words and disrespect. Don't let that define who YOU are. Your kids are grown now. Find out who you are. What kinds of things do you like to do that you haven't done in a long time? What kinds of things do you want to do? You are your own person who does not have to be defined by your husband or your children. </p><p></p><p>Put on an invisible suit of armor. Do not let the cruel words your husband or children say take root in you. Your feelings matter. You need to take care of yourself. Put yourself first. Practice self love. </p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 737739, member: 18516"] Welcome! I'm so sorry for your heartache. I agree with the others that seeking out a therapist would be the most helpful for you. Sometimes church's offer low cost counselling. This can be tricky, but you most certainly can tell your kids. It's not that you are out to bash your husband but your kids are not operating under the whole truth. Of course before I would say anything, I would want to work through this with a counselor. They have learned this behavior from watching their father. I do hope you will seek out some kind of therapy. You can also utilize the library as there are so many wonderful self help books. You have been beaten down with hurtful words and disrespect. Don't let that define who YOU are. Your kids are grown now. Find out who you are. What kinds of things do you like to do that you haven't done in a long time? What kinds of things do you want to do? You are your own person who does not have to be defined by your husband or your children. Put on an invisible suit of armor. Do not let the cruel words your husband or children say take root in you. Your feelings matter. You need to take care of yourself. Put yourself first. Practice self love. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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