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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 755120" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>I am so sorry for your heartache. I have walked in your shoes. I have asked myself all the questions you are asking. One day I made a huge list of things to why I was not having a relationship with my daughter. I wrote it out in large letters. This list has things like 1. She steals from me anytime she gets a chance. 2. She lies ALL the time about everything. 3 She treats me with disrespect etc etc. Then I asked myself, would I put up with all that from another person? And the answer is not no but H@LL no. I still had agony and grief but putting that list where I could see it helped me take the edge off my grief and ask myself, Do I want this abuse or is quiet time that I need? The answer was the quiet time was most healing for both of us. Sending you compassion and love as you go through this very trying time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 755120, member: 22416"] I am so sorry for your heartache. I have walked in your shoes. I have asked myself all the questions you are asking. One day I made a huge list of things to why I was not having a relationship with my daughter. I wrote it out in large letters. This list has things like 1. She steals from me anytime she gets a chance. 2. She lies ALL the time about everything. 3 She treats me with disrespect etc etc. Then I asked myself, would I put up with all that from another person? And the answer is not no but H@LL no. I still had agony and grief but putting that list where I could see it helped me take the edge off my grief and ask myself, Do I want this abuse or is quiet time that I need? The answer was the quiet time was most healing for both of us. Sending you compassion and love as you go through this very trying time. [/QUOTE]
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