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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 755122" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Thank you both.</p><p></p><p>I believe this was triggered because Amy is going for custody, which we support. We know that this will probably be the last straw for Kay and for us. And this is with the uncertainty that Amy can even get custody if Lee and Kay make promises to CPS and the courts. They are in another state now, far away. How that complicates things we are not sure. Will they come back to fight?</p><p></p><p>We could lose them both.</p><p></p><p>But I have talked to my pastor, whom I love, and go to church before work each day and this soothes me. I know this is out of my hands. However it has brought back all my old sadness, regrets and fears and added some. It is something I have to walk through as there is no way to hide.</p><p></p><p>We have upped our security system at home. Work already has a great system but we are considering the expense of a few security guards. We do not know if Lee and Kay will sneak back and try to harm us if they think we not only want THEIR son but may poison him with vaccinations. Believe it or not, Kay told Amy that if she vaccinated Jaden then "all bets are off" when she offered Amy "temporary" custody. That is Kay's biggest fear as twisted as I feel that is.</p><p></p><p>Jaden has not been vaccinated yet but even if Kay suspects he has been, we are prepared for "all bets are off."</p><p></p><p>We are not sure what both Lee and Kay meant by that, and Amy just wanted to pacify them so she did not ask, but all of us believe that those two can get violent if they think they have been crossed. We have reason to believe this. They have gone after people before, just not us.</p><p> </p><p>So we are all on edge and I am missing the Kay that I knew before I had to worry that she may hurt us. And it is all coming back at me in one big FOG. How did we get here?</p><p></p><p>Anyway thanks for the wise words. Blessings and love to all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 755122, member: 23706"] Thank you both. I believe this was triggered because Amy is going for custody, which we support. We know that this will probably be the last straw for Kay and for us. And this is with the uncertainty that Amy can even get custody if Lee and Kay make promises to CPS and the courts. They are in another state now, far away. How that complicates things we are not sure. Will they come back to fight? We could lose them both. But I have talked to my pastor, whom I love, and go to church before work each day and this soothes me. I know this is out of my hands. However it has brought back all my old sadness, regrets and fears and added some. It is something I have to walk through as there is no way to hide. We have upped our security system at home. Work already has a great system but we are considering the expense of a few security guards. We do not know if Lee and Kay will sneak back and try to harm us if they think we not only want THEIR son but may poison him with vaccinations. Believe it or not, Kay told Amy that if she vaccinated Jaden then "all bets are off" when she offered Amy "temporary" custody. That is Kay's biggest fear as twisted as I feel that is. Jaden has not been vaccinated yet but even if Kay suspects he has been, we are prepared for "all bets are off." We are not sure what both Lee and Kay meant by that, and Amy just wanted to pacify them so she did not ask, but all of us believe that those two can get violent if they think they have been crossed. We have reason to believe this. They have gone after people before, just not us. So we are all on edge and I am missing the Kay that I knew before I had to worry that she may hurt us. And it is all coming back at me in one big FOG. How did we get here? Anyway thanks for the wise words. Blessings and love to all. [/QUOTE]
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