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When will he be a responsible adult???
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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 756390" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Okie,</p><p></p><p>I posted on probably the wrong forum yesterday but I have the same thoughts, concerns and worries as you. I'm not blocking my son who lives in his car and has been homeless off and on for three years but I sometimes feel it's worst. He's not being mean or difficult but he never did anything to help his situation due to his own PTSD and ADHD like getting a job, functioning in society etc. Right now he's living off $200 he got back from holding down a job for something like 7 weeks in 2019. That's his everything $. I've tried to tell him to go into a shelter but he refuses and said no one's going to force him.</p><p></p><p>It pains me so much but because of his instability and past behavior towards me and ex-husband when he doesn't get his way, I cannot have him live with me. I feel so horrible because I can't even suggest he get a job etc., because with everything as it is right now he'd likely not find a job.</p><p></p><p>I'm sure he thinks I'm a horrible mother, with the world feeling like it's coming to an end and I won't let him live with me.</p><p></p><p>So torn and hurting over this.</p><p></p><p>The best thing we can do is pray for them and us.</p><p></p><p>Sending good thoughts to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 756390, member: 23405"] Okie, I posted on probably the wrong forum yesterday but I have the same thoughts, concerns and worries as you. I'm not blocking my son who lives in his car and has been homeless off and on for three years but I sometimes feel it's worst. He's not being mean or difficult but he never did anything to help his situation due to his own PTSD and ADHD like getting a job, functioning in society etc. Right now he's living off $200 he got back from holding down a job for something like 7 weeks in 2019. That's his everything $. I've tried to tell him to go into a shelter but he refuses and said no one's going to force him. It pains me so much but because of his instability and past behavior towards me and ex-husband when he doesn't get his way, I cannot have him live with me. I feel so horrible because I can't even suggest he get a job etc., because with everything as it is right now he'd likely not find a job. I'm sure he thinks I'm a horrible mother, with the world feeling like it's coming to an end and I won't let him live with me. So torn and hurting over this. The best thing we can do is pray for them and us. Sending good thoughts to you. [/QUOTE]
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