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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 749434" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I have always been too soft regarding my loved ones, but when it comes to problems adults are having with family members, and this has happened with Kay, my husband and I dont get involved.</p><p></p><p>This in my opinion is the girlfriend's problem. You are not responsible for your. grown son's grown girlfriend and how he treated her no matter how bad it was. His backstory is actually in my opinion only as much as he wants her to know. Its not in my opinion your place to tell her anything. She has a twelve year old so she isnt a child, like maybe you could think of a 21 year old as being. She also had problems with your son and decided to stay with him. This will be one of life's lessons for her. Maybe I am overly suspicious due to Kay, but I wonder if she hopes you will compensate her for your son's behavior.</p><p></p><p>My own personal instinct is that it would be uneeded trouble to get involved. I also see no moral reason to contact her. I hope you can sit back several days before doing anything. I find I respond better after I wait on things for a cooling down period. Maybe that would help you too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 749434, member: 23706"] I have always been too soft regarding my loved ones, but when it comes to problems adults are having with family members, and this has happened with Kay, my husband and I dont get involved. This in my opinion is the girlfriend's problem. You are not responsible for your. grown son's grown girlfriend and how he treated her no matter how bad it was. His backstory is actually in my opinion only as much as he wants her to know. Its not in my opinion your place to tell her anything. She has a twelve year old so she isnt a child, like maybe you could think of a 21 year old as being. She also had problems with your son and decided to stay with him. This will be one of life's lessons for her. Maybe I am overly suspicious due to Kay, but I wonder if she hopes you will compensate her for your son's behavior. My own personal instinct is that it would be uneeded trouble to get involved. I also see no moral reason to contact her. I hope you can sit back several days before doing anything. I find I respond better after I wait on things for a cooling down period. Maybe that would help you too. [/QUOTE]
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