timer lady
Queen of Hearts
kt's had a very rough time since husband left us Saturday morning. She wasn't aware that he was leaving nor was I. It just happened.
Well, kt is feeling abandoned, depressed & angry. All very valid emotions. Emotions we are encouraging kt to express (appropriately). However, we are also seeing more dissociation - some states back to infant hood. Making it very tough for PCAs to handle as kt has been in such a good state for so long they had never witnessed this & were extremely confused (scared?).
Praying we're not back to square one ~ I don't think so. At some point yesterday, kt told me that men were pigs. I didn't disagree.
Well, kt is feeling abandoned, depressed & angry. All very valid emotions. Emotions we are encouraging kt to express (appropriately). However, we are also seeing more dissociation - some states back to infant hood. Making it very tough for PCAs to handle as kt has been in such a good state for so long they had never witnessed this & were extremely confused (scared?).
Praying we're not back to square one ~ I don't think so. At some point yesterday, kt told me that men were pigs. I didn't disagree.