Me - married, 59. Husband 60, soulmate since age 19.
Easy child 26 (who my son would call the 'Golden Child') is like a sunshiny day to all who know them.
Difficult child son 24, currently cut us off after we called the police to remove him for the second time. Oppositional to his father since age 2. Intelligent and manipulative, possibly Aspie type, likes to threaten suicide and smash nearby objects to make a scene.