16 yr old devil child

[nlj]

Its hard knowing it will make him worse off.

How will it make him worse off?
He needs to hit some crisis point so that he starts dealing with this.
He is young enough to make major changes in his life.
He needs help. He needs something drastic to happen.
More importantly, you need help. You need something drastic to happen.
Otherwise, where are you both going to be in 5 years time?

 

[InsaneCdn]

Apparently it was fine with him being deviant in my house but having him removed they fear for the kids safety??? I can't win it seems.

Who is "they"? Your hubby? or social services, etc.?
If it's just your hubby, he can't just keep your kids from you against the visitation agreement. That would have to go before a judge. Child welfare can take all the kids while they investigate a situation (rare to do that, but they can), but will not make a decision based on one spouse's "opinion".

Not sure what province you are in - maybe send that in a private conversation?

 

[missionim23]

It's not enforceable by law I have to take him to court in order to enforce my visitation. My son visits but they've managed to convince my daughter to not visit anymore. But on the up side my oldest is staying with my mom for now. He's back in school which is good. Apparently he's doing good so I'm happy for him. We shall see how time plays it out.

 

[Confused]

I hope your son continues school and keeps calm, and hope you get to see your kids. Exes uggh!!! Hugs to you missionim23!