Yep but I want it documented and that way it gives a reason to document why I'm requesting it. Otherwise, he'll relay it the way he first yesterday which was to say "oh, you want a different PO just because I can't guarantee your son will be released in 30 days no matter what?" Nope- that's not why- it's because you've already held up one release date and now you are saying even if we agree on these services, comply and difficult child behaves, you still won't commit to having hhim released. This is illegal in this state, DDD.