husband called difficult child today to make arrangements for her to come over to transfer the car title into her name and get her own insurance. She confessed that she has been drinking since November and coccassionally smoking pot and says she does not think she is an alcoholic. She said nothing bad has happened yet and she's been doing this for months now.
Of course husband told her she was wrong and that sooner or later a lot of bad things were going to happen to her. She said she didn't have the money now for insurance and could we wait until her next payday and he said no we could no longer carry her on our insurance because she is no longer living her and using and we could not take that risk.
He told her that we were very dispapointed and that I would be devastated. She asked him to not cut off all communication with her. He told her we would always love her but would not enable her at all anymore.
So there we have it. I don't think she's ever been sober for more than 60 days.
Nancy
Of course husband told her she was wrong and that sooner or later a lot of bad things were going to happen to her. She said she didn't have the money now for insurance and could we wait until her next payday and he said no we could no longer carry her on our insurance because she is no longer living her and using and we could not take that risk.
He told her that we were very dispapointed and that I would be devastated. She asked him to not cut off all communication with her. He told her we would always love her but would not enable her at all anymore.
So there we have it. I don't think she's ever been sober for more than 60 days.
Nancy