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PatriotsGirl
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I am siting here in disbelief and wondering if she texted the wrong person.
difficult child just sent me a text saying her sex life is getting boring and she is not doing a good enough job to please her boyfriend and asks for help?
I am like what???? You are asking me for sex advice??? I don't want to know anything about that!!! I told her my advice is that they both get a dang job. Maybe they would get along better if they each had a life and weren't together 24/7.
I am so grossed out. Has your difficult child ever asked advice like this??
Another topic to post about - difficult child calls me yesterday and told me her staph infection is back on her face and she is headed to the hospital. She told me she had a ride. I told her okay, she has her insurance card and to keep me updated. I think she thought I was going to drop everything and come running. Even my husband said to let him know if I was leaving to go up there. I said I wasn't going. The last time I took a week off over this and I was emotionally abused the entire time by her. She is a big girl and needs to take responsibility for her own health. I was kind of proud of myself but on the other hand, I felt guilty that I wasn't rushing to be with her. She let me know this morning that she was not admitted, and they gave her a few prescriptions. Then she asks if I will bring them breakfast?? Huh?? She thought again that I would run up there to get her prescriotions filled. She was with boyfriend when she called and I had her ask boyfriend while I was on the phone if he would bring her to get them filled and he said yes. So, again, I am not going. I don't see a reason for me to. The antibiotic she needs is free and if anything requires payment, I can do that over the phone. Why in the world would I drive almost an hour when she is with her boyfriend who has a vehicle???
Just scratching my head over here this morning. Hopefully, difficult child sees that I am treating her as an adult and will no longer drop everything to do things for her that she is more than capable of doing herself. I do feel I am definitely one step forward in detachment...
difficult child just sent me a text saying her sex life is getting boring and she is not doing a good enough job to please her boyfriend and asks for help?
I am like what???? You are asking me for sex advice??? I don't want to know anything about that!!! I told her my advice is that they both get a dang job. Maybe they would get along better if they each had a life and weren't together 24/7.
I am so grossed out. Has your difficult child ever asked advice like this??
Another topic to post about - difficult child calls me yesterday and told me her staph infection is back on her face and she is headed to the hospital. She told me she had a ride. I told her okay, she has her insurance card and to keep me updated. I think she thought I was going to drop everything and come running. Even my husband said to let him know if I was leaving to go up there. I said I wasn't going. The last time I took a week off over this and I was emotionally abused the entire time by her. She is a big girl and needs to take responsibility for her own health. I was kind of proud of myself but on the other hand, I felt guilty that I wasn't rushing to be with her. She let me know this morning that she was not admitted, and they gave her a few prescriptions. Then she asks if I will bring them breakfast?? Huh?? She thought again that I would run up there to get her prescriotions filled. She was with boyfriend when she called and I had her ask boyfriend while I was on the phone if he would bring her to get them filled and he said yes. So, again, I am not going. I don't see a reason for me to. The antibiotic she needs is free and if anything requires payment, I can do that over the phone. Why in the world would I drive almost an hour when she is with her boyfriend who has a vehicle???
Just scratching my head over here this morning. Hopefully, difficult child sees that I am treating her as an adult and will no longer drop everything to do things for her that she is more than capable of doing herself. I do feel I am definitely one step forward in detachment...