(((((Hugs)))) Janet
It is hard to know you said things that seem "mean" to ant. But are they really mean? Or just a truth he doesn't want to face?
Maybe some time in state prison will be his "rock bottom". After everything he has put you through he still knows that you love him. This is good. But you need to keep up the detachment (sp?) so that you can have a full life.
It sounds like meanness, but right now you have to focus on Janet, on boyfriend, on easy child, and on Kaleb.
Ant needs to face all of his conflama himself. (conflama = conflict + drama) HE is 24. Maybe he will come to his senses as he gets older, maybe not. But you taught him the right way to live, showed him your faith, and showered him with love. It just may take a while for the good things to come up to the top of the heap. The good things have to break through so much crud.
You are NOT a burden to us, here on the board. We will lend you strength as you need it. We love you!
Susie
It is hard to know you said things that seem "mean" to ant. But are they really mean? Or just a truth he doesn't want to face?
Maybe some time in state prison will be his "rock bottom". After everything he has put you through he still knows that you love him. This is good. But you need to keep up the detachment (sp?) so that you can have a full life.
It sounds like meanness, but right now you have to focus on Janet, on boyfriend, on easy child, and on Kaleb.
Ant needs to face all of his conflama himself. (conflama = conflict + drama) HE is 24. Maybe he will come to his senses as he gets older, maybe not. But you taught him the right way to live, showed him your faith, and showered him with love. It just may take a while for the good things to come up to the top of the heap. The good things have to break through so much crud.
You are NOT a burden to us, here on the board. We will lend you strength as you need it. We love you!
Susie
