Haven't heard a word from difficult child Jess in almost a month...and than it dawned on me...hadn't heard from my sis in about three weeks either...hmmm...so I sent a message but didn't get an answer.
Logged into facebook and went to her page....ahh...now it all makes sense. She's got Jess added back as a friend and there is a little blurb on there about how sis is attending the baby shower that is planned in june for the new baby girl soon to arrive after that.
I wrote sis and asked what the heck was going on....she said she's been in contact and heard some things that made her think that I was the problem...oh do tell I said...apparently all I did was whine and complain to Jess about her sisters, her brother, her dad, not having money, that she felt worse after getting off the phone with me, that I didn't support her decision to go into the group home, leave the group home, get preggy, have the kid...yada yada yada...
Ohmygod, I am the bad guy!!! insert rolling eyes here please
I am such a bad bad person....yeah good one...I sought help for my kid for years and got turned away cause she's really good at playing games and appearing fine. I put up with her midnight calls from the hospital, group home and her place whining about the patients(who all wanted to rape her), the staff at the home(who were all out to get her) and her boyfriend(who sent her out for hours to have his alone time)....
I packed up all the emails and mssgs and forwarded them to sis...including the ones that she already knew about and had printed off.
Than I called her hubby...who has moved out...he said he is sick of her games...that she will do what it takes to get that baby no matter what...she figures if she is in their lives and they can't handle the baby, she can step in and be the saviour...lmao..
No drama for me this time around....just sitting back and waiting for the fallout that she will have to deal with...
Carolanne
Logged into facebook and went to her page....ahh...now it all makes sense. She's got Jess added back as a friend and there is a little blurb on there about how sis is attending the baby shower that is planned in june for the new baby girl soon to arrive after that.
I wrote sis and asked what the heck was going on....she said she's been in contact and heard some things that made her think that I was the problem...oh do tell I said...apparently all I did was whine and complain to Jess about her sisters, her brother, her dad, not having money, that she felt worse after getting off the phone with me, that I didn't support her decision to go into the group home, leave the group home, get preggy, have the kid...yada yada yada...
Ohmygod, I am the bad guy!!! insert rolling eyes here please
I am such a bad bad person....yeah good one...I sought help for my kid for years and got turned away cause she's really good at playing games and appearing fine. I put up with her midnight calls from the hospital, group home and her place whining about the patients(who all wanted to rape her), the staff at the home(who were all out to get her) and her boyfriend(who sent her out for hours to have his alone time)....
I packed up all the emails and mssgs and forwarded them to sis...including the ones that she already knew about and had printed off.
Than I called her hubby...who has moved out...he said he is sick of her games...that she will do what it takes to get that baby no matter what...she figures if she is in their lives and they can't handle the baby, she can step in and be the saviour...lmao..
No drama for me this time around....just sitting back and waiting for the fallout that she will have to deal with...
Carolanne
, its a wise choice to keep out of the drama, because its really neverending and difficult child's are sooooo good at playing the victim and entangling everyone they come across in their concockted tales.
