I *really* need some help here

[flutterby]

Can you tell I'm going through the range of emotions here? Sigh....

 

[gcvmom]

Totally understandable. I guess all you can do is continue with your detachment and help as much as you're able. The rest is out of your hands. Not the best arrangement, but not really your choice, is it?

 

[maril]

A very difficult situation, of course, and his mom and he are so fortunate to have your support. As well, like gcv mom said, you are between a rock and a hard place.

I don't think it is necessary for you to apologize. You are doing the best you can to help in a very distressing situation. You care for him as you do your own.

What I stated in my earlier post, "The other posters have good suggestions, and maybe medication will be the first step towards him getting on the right track. Good luck to all." : I have this thinking regarding medication as relates to my son -- that is, if we could find medication that would be effective for him, it might open doors for him; just thinking along the same lines and did not mean to instruct or criticize.

Take care.